More than a Fantasy

The world of day dreams and fantasy is one that I have often found so captivating. In this realm, reality does not apply but that is also the draw back. I’ve caught my mind wandering to stranger and stranger places, ones that are familiar to me if I’m truly honest but that I hesitate to speak about to others. That is the power and captivation of the fantasy dreamland- I need not worry what others think. Sometimes I dare to wonder, do others have the same proclivities? If I wish hard enough, I can imagine a partner who is a perfect mirror to my perversions. Indulgent, wicked, precise. Without much appearance of effort, she has me in her clutches. Here is where I [...]

By |2020-09-10T16:56:55-07:00September 10th, 2020|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

Fake Accounts – How to Avoid Being Scammed

In current times it seems that someone or several someone’s have taken to impersonating me and many other Dommes online. They are using my image to steal money and information from people. Here are some ways to avoid having that happen to you and to learn how to spot a fake domme and avoid being scammed on dating sites. Does the social media or account look legit? Is the person using an actual domme’s name? A key point in how to spot a fake domme is that they are using a variation of a name like instead of @rubyenraylls they are using @rubyenraylIs with a capitol I instead of an l. The rest of the social media will look the same, except the [...]

By |2020-04-20T18:12:17-07:00April 20th, 2020|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

First Time Anxiety

You have some desires that keep persisting. You’ve tried to escape them, push them down, ignore them, forget that they’re there. Why is that? You’ve often asked yourself this. You’re afraid that others won’t accept you as you are. For that reason and many others, it just makes sense to keep your fantasies to yourself. That’s just not enough anymore though. You’re craving something more and most of all, you want to express your desires and be seen. The first time you message her, you feel your pulse quicken. You’re so nervous. You’ve talked yourself out of contacting her so many times but for some reason right now you feel emboldened. You’ve pressed send and it’s out of your hands now. You’ve taken [...]

By |2019-10-10T09:54:14-07:00October 10th, 2019|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

Femdom Erotica – Traveler gets Locked in Chastity

It’s been a long week already but you’ve had your email to distract you. Normally you hate the airport, the waiting, the delays and all the people. This time it just gives you time to build up tension. Her emails, texts and photos have kept you on edge the entire time and you can’t wait to see what awaits you on the other end of your flight. She reads you like a book but your Mistress is so mysterious to you. That always works to her advantage. This time she says she has a surprise for you, given what she knows about you… You can only imagine what it could be. Oh well, time to board and shut down. You’re on your toes [...]

By |2019-09-03T17:25:38-07:00September 3rd, 2019|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

Photo Casting Call

Good Afternoon perverts, I have a lovely opportunity for those of you who enjoy showing off your inner exhibitionist: I am doing an official casting call for an artistic and ongoing photo project that I’m collaborating on with several photographer friends of mine. Let me be perfectly and crystal clear: This is not a call for models in clips, pornography, video, etc. I may in the future do a casting call for that but this an artistic project featuring BDSM, fetish and event erotic elements that I find interesting and alluring but focuses heavily on the artistic element. I have been inspired by many creative artists online such as Mistress Eva, Mistress Troy and Cybill Troy. At first glance you may just look [...]

By |2019-08-25T13:02:50-07:00August 25th, 2019|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

How to Size a Chastity Cage

There are so many different types of chastity cages to choose from, making a selection sometimes seems impossible. There are many different styles, materials, shapes, you name it! Which one is right for you? Hopefully I can shed some light on how to purchase a chastity device that will work for you by illuminating some critical consideration points. Before we start with sizing we need to consider how you’ll use this device. Are you going to be locked up for an hour while you go out and get groceries for your Mistress? Is it a night of chastity for you, lucky boy? Perhaps something more long term like a week of being locked in your cage. Maybe something more intense still like a [...]

By |2019-08-05T17:02:05-07:00August 5th, 2019|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

Sizing Corsets for Sissies, Feminization, and Crossdressing

Corset training can be an excellent part of any feminization routine or a wonderful set of sissy tasks. If you want to make your body more feminine, it’s a great way to do it without any big changes, so it’s a great option for a man, sissy or casual player to explore. They can range from cheap to very pricey depending on your needs, budget and how fancy you want to be. That being said, you can often get what you need for your closet without breaking the bank. I’m going to answer some basic questions that you may have about how to fit a corset, this is part one about picking a corset. I’m briefly touching on several other topics I’m going [...]

By |2019-07-21T20:43:48-07:00July 21st, 2019|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

Sizing Women’s Clothes for Sissies, Feminization & Crossdressing

All around the world, women lament the chore of trying to divinate the size of their clothes. When trying to figure out your size in women’s clothes as a Sissy, for feminization or crossdressing it gets a bit more complicated. 0 here, 12 there, 40 over there. It makes no sense. That’s just crossing countries. Try crossing brands. If I look into my jeans drawer I can find 26, 27, 28, 29, 2, 4, 6, xx small, small, medium and one size fits all. Who could possibly figure out how to order pants when you’re coming from a world of waist by length? I guess what I’m saying here is that no brand is standard in sizing when it comes to women’s clothing [...]

By |2019-07-17T17:09:43-07:00July 17th, 2019|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

Service Opportunities

Have you ever wanted to serve me? Well today is your lucky chance. Much like any busy person, I have an endless to do list that I never seem to get to the bottom of and an endless list of things that always need prepping, preparing or acquisition. In other words: Errands and chores. I won’t keep things too long and arduous but I do like to keep things fun so consider this an invitation for an application. You may email my gmail account Rubyenraylls@gmail.com with your application and qualifications. I will be shortly posting tasks here as well. Related Images: [See image gallery at www.rubylovesyou.com] The post Service Opportunities appeared first on Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls. Service Opportunities

By |2019-07-16T22:26:39-07:00July 16th, 2019|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

What type of sub are you?

What is your submissive play style? A while ago I retweeted an image on Twitter roughly about different types of subs. That image is somewhat inaccurate, I think but I retweeted it because I thought it was funny and I didn’t expect people to really ask me about it. Then I started thinking about different types of “subs” for a lack of a better term. I have often thought about the different driving forces behind what composes kink, BDSM, fetish, etc, however that is a post for a different day. So I began thinking about the motivations behind each different type of sub I have observed. There will be a follow up to this post because I think there are more sub classifications [...]

By |2019-03-19T13:03:02-07:00March 19th, 2019|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments