Ups and Downs and Ups Again

The Rough Subbe and I have been going through some challenging things lately regarding our relationship. It is always somewhat tenuous because of our ages and places in life, but sometimes I feel it more than other times. Yes! Dommes can get insecure. And it is very bad for a D/s dynamic—at least mine. When I feel insecure in our relationship, I veer between anger at him for making me feel insecure, anger at myself for staying in a situation that’s making me feel that way, and then an intense desire to please, which is rather counterintuitive for an F/m relationship. Also, all of this veering can happen all at once. I’ll be nice and kind and then end making some cutting remark [...]

By |2023-11-14T16:57:36-08:00November 14th, 2023|Categories: For Men|Tags: |0 Comments

101 Not Out…

I know it's been an awfully long time since my last post, and I quite understand if you had given up on me ever posting anything again. But here I am. I can't tell you how many times I've thought about posting something over the last six months, but I knew I would promise to post more and that I would soon be posting the four stories I have on the go... but I didn't want to make any more promises that I knew I probably wouldn't be able to keep...So I kept quiet. And really I haven't been keeping up with what's been going on in the chastity/femdom blogosphere that much, the only blog I really follow these days is 'Sub Hub [...]

By |2023-11-08T15:48:00-08:00November 8th, 2023|Categories: Chastity|Tags: |0 Comments

An open letter about chastity

by Mistress Ayn’s slaveboy Five years ago, in 2018, i reached out to Mistress Ayn, whom i had served only a few times in session as a submissive, after many decades of submitting to other professional Mistresses, and asked if She would consider being my Keyholder and placing me in chastity.  In retrospect, i honestly really did not fully understand what i was asking of Her or the multiple dimensions or aspects of chastity, but thankfully She was knowledgeable, experienced, and willing. For Her services, which have far exceeded my expectations and fantasies, She explained that there would be a monthly fee (a financial aspect of chastity), not exorbitant but fair given Her time commitment.  This was the first reality check of being [...]

By |2023-11-07T07:44:02-08:00November 7th, 2023|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |1 Comment

Two Fabulous London Dungeons For Hire

London Dungeon Suite The London Dungeon Suite is a BDSM apartment & playspace in Hoxton, N1. It has been thoughtfully designed with kinky couples in mind, by professional dominatrix Madam Caramel. It’s available for to hire for extended overnight packages … Continue reading → The post Two Fabulous London Dungeons For Hire appeared first on Mistress Sidonia's Femdom Blog. Two Fabulous London Dungeons For Hire

By |2023-11-06T22:00:49-08:00November 6th, 2023|Categories: User Submissions|Tags: |0 Comments

Returning to The House of Sinn

Once again I will be visiting My Friend, Ezada Sinn at The House of Sinn.  The last visit was a great combination of filming and socializing and more is on the plate for this visit because two additional Ladies will be visiting while I am there.  I love the opportunity to film with HOS’s well trained chattel so if you have a request or want to commission a custom, this is your chance.  Ezada usually doesn’t entertain custom requests but if you have something that is not too scripted, She might say yes . . .   Plus I will be filming solo with Her slaves for one day. The trip is planned for mid November, so get your requests in now. [...]

By |2023-10-31T11:30:10-07:00October 31st, 2023|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

Goddess of Gadgets ~ Mistress Jane of Wilshire

Goddess of Gadgets ~ Mistress Jane of Wilshire Mistress Jane is a gorgeous, experienced, highly skilled and approachable session focused prodom. Based in Wiltshire between Swindon & Bristol, this Mistress has one of the best equipped chambers in the UK. … Continue reading → The post Goddess of Gadgets ~ Mistress Jane of Wilshire appeared first on Mistress Sidonia's Femdom Blog. Goddess of Gadgets ~ Mistress Jane of Wilshire

By |2023-10-28T01:16:49-07:00October 28th, 2023|Categories: User Submissions|Tags: |0 Comments

The Magic of Simple Witnessing

Witnessing of Big Toy Play What is 'Witnessing'? Let me explain. A while ago I wrote an article about the stigma of men using big toys. There are still many women who cannot accept mere male receptive anal play as normal, and make all kinds of incorrect assumptions. I've countered and attempted to dispel all those myths and misconceptions ad nauseum, for the last 13 years. But even fewer women will accept, much less enjoy, men using big toys. I'm not sure why. Joy They Can't Share Most men who engage in big toy play do it solo. I've seen posts from guys asking how they can break it to new partners that they enjoy large anal insertions. Other posts talk about hiding [...]

By |2023-10-27T17:40:34-07:00October 27th, 2023|Categories: Femdom Anal Training|Tags: |0 Comments

New Strap On Me Inflatable Dildo Plug!

Strap On Me Inflatable Dildo Plug The Basics: Diameter 1.12" - 2.36" Insertable 5.5" - 6.5" Suction Cup Base Waterproof Inflatable Dildo Plug Care Important detail - do not use alcohol, acetone, or 'petrol-based cleaning products' to clean this toy, per manufacturer's instructions. Acetone can sometimes be used to remove odors from silicone toys, but not with this toy! Use antibacterial soap only. Can it be Used For Pegging? Only if you don't want to inflate the toy once it's in the harness. Considering the physics of using the inflation bulb, inflating it during pegging wouldn't be easy, because the base of the toy is where the needle goes in. Theoretically you could put the inflatable dildo plug through a 2 strap harness, [...]

By |2023-10-24T22:41:45-07:00October 24th, 2023|Categories: Femdom Anal Training|Tags: |0 Comments

Bird Of Prey – Bad Girls Top Ten

Welcome to The English Mansion’s Bad Girls Top Ten Our musical Top Tens dedicated to all things kinky This is, almost, an entirely female vocals chart (excepting the joint number 9’s,) with a strong showing of tracks all released in … Continue reading → The post Bird Of Prey – Bad Girls Top Ten appeared first on Mistress Sidonia's Femdom Blog. Bird Of Prey – Bad Girls Top Ten

By |2023-10-22T22:00:40-07:00October 22nd, 2023|Categories: User Submissions|Tags: |0 Comments

EPIC ENEMAS and so much more

5 hours of surprise enemas and predicament bondage- why it is so erotic, intimate and exciting. In the world of intimacy and exploration, sensation play stands as an exhilarating gateway to pleasure, where the body becomes a playground of delightful surprises. At its core, sensation play is an art form, weaving together elements of touch, temperature, texture, and anticipation to create a symphony of sensations that tantalize the senses. However, one of its most enchanting aspects lies in the element of surprise, where the unexpected becomes a source of profound enjoyment and connection. The joy of sensation play is deeply rooted in the art of surprise, where partners or individuals revel in the unknown, embracing the anticipation of what comes next. In the [...]

By |2023-10-18T17:43:49-07:00October 18th, 2023|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments