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Fall Changes, Forward Motion and Endings
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Fall Changes, Forward Motion and Endings

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Fall Changes, Forward Motion and Endings

Lately it’s been a life lived in a general state of desire I’ve missed. I’m happy to have my lust back, happy to crave and want and not feel completely undesired although I have once again screwed myself (and not in the good way) via setting my wants on someone out of easy reach for their regular use. I’ve endeavored to sublimate that desire into productivity. My not so stable office gig finally tipped over, commanding I look elsewhere. There have been a few auspicious leads, but just starting the process. So career shift joins the other life changes that this year brought. You already know I ended things with Wildcard. I also basically closed the door on my monthly munch, being more [...]

Femdom Review “The Butters” Oil Based Lube
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Femdom Review “The Butters” Oil Based Lube

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Femdom Review “The Butters” Oil Based Lube

I like this, but not for sex. From time to time, as a blogger, I’m privileged to get random free samples shucked my way, for the publicity my talking about it gives, and also beta testing. In the case of The Butters, an oil based lube, it is one of the nicest moisturizers I have ever tried, but… I don’t want to put it on my vulva, or give someone a hand job with it, or slick up a toy with it. I will happily rub it into my legs and face, but it is not a good sex product for me. And this brand does EVERYTHING right, so don’t think this is one of my little rants, like my disapproval of those [...]

A break in my blog posts

For reasons I need not mention, there will be a break in my posting of blog entries and moderating/publishing/responding to comments. The break will start in two or three weeks and will last for two to four weeks. After the break I will resume as normal. On a separate note, the volume of sales of my BDSM Manual have been very considerable; I guess because it is for any gender of dominant dealing with any gender of submissive it has mass appeal. So far I have only received positive comments. I do wonder if it has been featured on some BDSM book review site or similar to have become so popular so quickly. LINK to my published journals. LINK to my published BDSM manual. [...]

New York & Brick
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New York & Brick

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New York & Brick

I went to New York last weekend. Three days, two sleeps, flying down to Laguardia, waiting anxiously at the airport for him to arrive and the meet up, full of bounce as weeks of anticipation culminated in the hard impact of bodies next to the baggage carousel. The heat off us and the mist of lust kept us cocooned as my hands stroked his chest, my lips met his and my body insistently pressed. He was already hardening just from my touch, there, gooey but not pushing the bounds of good taste in public too far. We took a taxi to Manhattan, where our hotel sat just off Wall Street. I was in New York, one of my favourite cities and I didn’t [...]

Beware a fake Mistress Scarlet blog

Cuckx has advised me of a blog/website masquerading as one of mine. IT IS NOT! It is nothing to do with me at all. This is an example page. https://www.femdomtraining.ca/pretty-nettle-pouch/ Source: Ms Scarlet Beware a fake Mistress Scarlet blog

Pretty Nettle Pouch?
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Pretty Nettle Pouch?

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Pretty Nettle Pouch?

Pink Gimp kindly sent me the following comment. Hi came across this item, http://shop.birchplace.com./pouches/pvc-pansy-pouch?cPath=99& and thought of the nettle pouch You use on bitchboy, more fitting look lol and nice pink colour. He is so right but before I purchase, I have one concern which perhaps a blog follower may be able to answer. Has anyone bought this item and if yes, can the drawstring be tied really tightly or does the elasticated opening prevent the draw string being tied really tightly? Source: Ms Scarlet Pretty Nettle Pouch?

How hard to smack the object?

The wonderful Christine M left me a comment with this question. Ms Scarlet I have always avoided spanking the penis out of fear of serious bruising, knowing there are so many blood vessels within. Can I therefore enquire, when you use the ruler, can you give an indication of how hard you strike, and what might be a typical number of strokes? This is not mentioned in your Manual, which I have enjoyed. At the end, is there much bruising, and if so, how long does it last? This is my response below. Do any other ruler smacking users have any guidance tips on how hard to smack? It is hard to put into the written word how hard a smack should be. I [...]

Watch this space – great new posts here

Some great new posts from the delightful Mistress Rebecca Follow this link. Source: Ms Scarlet Watch this space – great new posts here

Alternative punishment

Well it was a full-on domination day but it was also the day before bitch-boy had to go to hospital for a very personal examination. (Nothing serious.) I had decided to accompany him to the hospital. I had insisted he shave his genitals today so that would be an embarrassment for him at the hospital. I decided he could snap out his black, acrylic frenum piercing ring. I would have him glue another ring in place when we got back from the hospital. However today, he was due a serious punishment for an infraction. I decided against the cane or similar as I did not want his butt all bruised and marked. I did not want to be reported for assault or domestic abuse. [...]

Maximising the effect on the submissive.

On the 2nd September I posted a theory on maximising the effect on the submissive. There was more detail, but the key I contend is that the submissive’s PERCEPTION of the dominant’s cruelty is key to maximising effect. I mentioned that if there is any doubt that humiliating, painful, tedious, and or demeaning activity for the submissive was giving sadistic pleasure to the dominant, then the dominant should verbalise that fact. (I amended the theory the next day to say that if the Domme makes it ABSOLUTELY clear to the submissive that the Domme is a sadist and many acts in which they partake are to satisfy their sadistic desires, then there is no need to verbalise their sadism. I will stress however that there must be [...]