In my last post I mentioned the delightful Mistress Rebecca. (She also left comments on my blog recently.) Well she has started her own blog. If you are lucky she will fully describe her real life FLR regime and its developments in the future as evolution continues. So you might want to follow her. Source: Ms Scarlet Watch This Space!

I wrote about this before, a couple of years ago. But recent interactions have caused me to wonder about the prevalence of returning male submissive puppets back to virgin status; never ever again allowed to penetrate their Mistress, or any woman. It is around 11 years now for bitch-boy. For the puppet of my newest wonderful Domme friend, Mistress Nicola, it is 4 years, and for a delightful domestic USA Domme, Mistress Rebecca, I have been recently corresponding with by email, it is about 4 months. (My email correspondence with her, during the period she pondered and then made her decision to return her repeatedly tearful husband to BAVS, and some commentary from me, features as a short entry in the draft of Volume 12 of my journals.) With bitch-boy [...]

I thought I had banged on about nettles until everyone was bored rigid. However I received this question in a comment. P.S. Are you able / willing to share a photo of the type of nettles to look out for please? So I hope this will be a definitive post. The best nettles are bright, bottle green in colour and have yet to flower.  The leaves are close together at the top, which is a fantastic side effect of them being at the right stage; when it comes to whipping or stroking with them. This is the Springtime nettle. These  sting the most by far and the stings can last for 4 hours. As we move to summer the nettles flower, (the strings of bobbles). The colour [...]

Well I am just old enough to remember the UK hit by Gilbert O’Sullivan, Alone Again Naturally. I saw the song title used on a bondage image on Tumblr. Here is my image for the title. I will never think of the track the same way again whenever I hear the title!     Source: Ms Scarlet Alone again, naturally – bondage

Mistress Nicola visited again and through our emails since her first visit she had come to understand that I had not exposed to her my most EXTREME humiliations of bitch-boy; fearing the potential grotesqueness and weirdness of my approach may be too much for her. (While she has been into chastity control, bedtime control  and generous torture of her slave husband for several years, humiliation had not really featured to a great extent. She is delightfully sadistic when it comes to inflicting pain though, I have to say!) Well Mistress Nicola asked that I put bitch-boy through his very worst humiliations on her second visit. She was intrigued and imagined she would enjoy his misery. Obviously I was very happy to do so. Poor bitch-boy [...]

So far there has been universal agreement with the theory I set out in yesterday’s post, with one caveat. If the Domme makes it ABSOLUTELY clear to the submissive that the Domme is a sadist and many acts in which they partake are to satisfy their sadistic desires, then there is no need to verbalise their sadism. I will stress however that there must be no doubt in the mind of the submissive. Any such doubt should be eradicated by verbalising. If in doubt, verbalise. LINK to my published journals. LINK to my published BDSM manual. Source: Ms Scarlet Maximising the effect on the submissive (part 2)

I am interested in comments from true submissives on the following: (I define true submissives as those who recognised their submissiveness before they reached puberty; before the age of say 11, and who have desired domination ever since.) Recent experiences and some reading lead me to be convinced that the submissive’s PERCEPTION of the dominant’s cruelty is key to maximising effect. I highlight perception because it is more important than the cruelty itself. I stress cruelty is TAKING PLEASURE in inflicting discomfort. To give a real example: On any full-on domination day, bitch-boy will find himself in total sensory deprivation bondage (TSDB) for between one hour and six hours. (Up to six hours if I have a female submissive here for using and abusing). I could [...]

I know I do go on about ‘playing with his boy’s bits’. But it is something I do for between one and two hours each day I dominate bitch-boy. I have written about it before. LINK, LINK,  and posted a photo. I post about this pastime again today because I have made a small improvement for myself when doing this. The set up provides me with a view of bitch-boy’s butt, (should I momentarily look away from the TV screen), while teasing away relentlessly with my long, slim, skilled fingers. The last time I played with his boy’s bits, it followed a serious session of butt punishment with cane and quirt and bitch-boy’s but was red and puffy and well marked. I found this view [...]

I enjoyed a delightful few hours at the home of Mistress Nicola, humiliating and tormenting her slave husband. Mistress Nicola has definitely begun to enjoy humiliating submissive males as well as causing them physical discomfort. For instance, he spent a great deal of time in a purple tu-tu which seriously humiliated him and I taught him to curtsey and to mince. How shamed he was! Her poor husband now has a name he hates as a result of me. Wonderful. Throughout my visit, among other labels to shame with him I, a few times, called him a pansy-piece. Mistress Nicola emailed me following my visit to advise me she had decided to name him ‘pansy-piece’; as he was so shamed by the label. [...]