One thing that has changed since I gave up work is poor bitch-boy finding himself home alone in extreme bondage rather often. I am amazed over how many hair, nail, beauty and other appointments I attend each week. Some last half hour, some last three hours. The appointments were beginning to infringe on the number of consecutive days each week I wanted bitch-boy to be subjected to ‘full-on’ domination. (No vanilla life distractions.) My solution has been to leave bitch-boy in ‘cotton bondage’ while I attend appointments, rather often. I describe cotton bondage in my published manual in some detail. In a nutshell it is bondage from which he is only allowed to escape if there is a fire or a burglar. It is [...]

Both darkhorsesub and slave helpfully commented on my last post that the Domme in the video is known as Obey Melanie (formerly Barefoot Princess). I have seen many of her videos and as far as I am concerned she exhibits the perfect attitude and demeanour of a perfect Domme. I am not a huge fan of some of the things she inflicts on her subs BUT I am a HUGE FAN of her perfect attitude and demeanour. When I thought about writing this post, I began to realise it might be difficult to put into words what her perfect attitude and demeanour display. To begin with there is ABSOLUTE PITILESSNESS. She is going to do exactly what she wants to do and is not at [...]

Many of you will know all about the Rotary Clothes-line Duty I have bitch-boy endure in the summer months. I read the weekend supplements in the conservatory overlooking the lawn on which the rotary clothes line is located. Him blindfolded and gagged, his posture collar secured at the back to one of the three spars of the rotary clothes line. His wrists padlocked into the cuffs at the front of his reins. And he slowly walks in a circle, the same circle, again and again, endlessly turning the rotary clothes line. Blind, silenced, frightened and enduring tedium. (See Volume 5 of my journals). His only contact with me is when I go out every twenty minutes or so, to cane his butt to encourage him in [...]

A review of my 5th Journal: Mistress Scarlet’s journals are perfect.. superb By Amazon Customer on October 27, 2016:         Format: Kindle Edition|Verified Purchase Mistress Scarlet’s journals are perfect .. superb… exciting .. and above all She is very honest in Her writings. She is truly the epitome of Female Supremacy. 1 out of 5 stars Some lovely words from this reader but only one star out of 5 !?!?!?!?!   LINK to my published journals. LINK to my published BDSM manual. Source: Ms Scarlet Mistress Scarlet’s journals are perfect.. superb

Well my collaboration with my newest Domme friend continues to go from strength to strength. What a fantastic collaborator she is! We have dates agreed up to Christmas and are just getting dates in the diary for next year. Dates for either me to go to her house or her to come to my house, and at whichever house it is, the resident submissive male is PROPERLY used and abused! The visits are now extended. Initially a couple of hours at a time, we are now aiming at around 6 hours each visit. Poor, poor bitch-boy at my house and poor, poor pansy-piece at Nicola’s house! It has been interesting to observe Nicola’s evolution. One aspect in particular. She is much newer to the full-on [...]

I know I do bang on about partial ignoring a lot, but it is one of most my favourite things. I find it sooooo relaxing and arousing! Having bitch-boy in sensory deprivation bondage for an hour or two, his only contact with me the occasional top-up of nettles stings or a nasty cream to his clitty. I sit downstairs, reading, watching TV, swiping on my device, on telephone calls, sunbathing, whatever. I am so relaxed and content and he is so very miserable! Now and again I look at the tiny baby monitor receiver screen to see him in his total bondage. The feeling of total power is delicious.  I have to use my massager on myself every now and then, to relieve the arousal. I [...]

Well the number of followers of my Tumblr blog has crept up to over 14,000. It interests me that such an eclectic range of images and videos has apparently popular appeal. There are many femdom Tumblr sites with quite specific and focused material catering to individual fetishes where you would think people would be most drawn. Perhaps it shows that true submissives are more affected by dominant women being cruel in the way those women want, rather than submissives having their own specific fantasies met. My many interests include: – duration sensory deprivation bondage, chastity and tease and denial, clothed women naked men, casually dressed women with men dressed as sissies or parodies of little girls, multiple dominant women bullying one male, lesbian wives cuckolding husbands, dickie-discipline, degradation by spit, degradation [...]

Amazingly, despite my BDSM manual flying off the shelves at Amazon and Lulu, and great feedback via comments on my blog, the manual has only now received its first review on Amazon. This is on Amazon UK. I am very pleased with this 5 star review. Packed with useful advice and suggestions for establishing and evolving a mature and satisfying D/s relationship from someone with long real life experience. Her often fiendish, and yet thrilling scenarios for controlling and subjugating a submissive partner are imaginative and inspiring. As a submissive male with an inexperienced (but determined!) dominant Wife, we are finding much material in the manual to help us on our journey to Her stated intention of absolute control of me. I would [...]

By comparison to ball-busting, there is so little good dickie-discipline on the web. I just don’t know why. I find the levels of eroticism much, mush higher with dickie-discipline. Am I alone in this preference? What do you male submissives feel on the matter? It seems to me that dickie-discipline can also be performed for a very long time without any breaks when one wishes that. Finally, when the male can see what is happening to their precious little tubes of gristle, they seem VERY affected. This delightful lady really is kindred spirit in attitude and tastes although little smacking, nettles and embrocation cream use compared to my preferences. But nonetheless I LOVE her style. I gather her sissy puppet is a born again virgin, in [...]