I hope the new year brings to Dommes, if not already possessed by them: A feeling of being relaxed and uninhibited with freedom from self-consciousness when indulging in unambiguously sadistic activities. A feeling of utter mercilessness in the pursuit of their pleasures and the subjugation of their sub. One or more perfect third parties to assist in the pursuit of their depravities and the subjugation  of their sub. I hope the new year brings to subs, all of the above things for their Domme. (We all know no matter how much you feel helplessly dominated or how much you hate much of what you must endure little sub, it is such lifestyle elements that bring you the submissive contentment you need and crave.) 2017 brought me giving up work and [...]

A delightful visit to the house of Mistress Nicola yesterday to humiliate and abuse her submissive pansy-piece. As a Christmas prezzie to all followers I include some photos. Heavily edited I am afraid to obscure all distinguishable features. But I am sure you will get the gist and pansy-piece will be suitably humiliated as his Wife-Mistress desires. And of course they rub bitch-boy’s nose into his cuckolded status too. An enforced tea party for his little toy friends while we sit on the sofa and chat. To start with, he has white noise ear buds under his bonnet. An initially punished butt.     Relaxed pitiless Mistress-Wives.       A Happy Christmas.       LINK to my published journals. LINK to my published BDSM [...]

To all you followers of this blog, I hope you have a great Xmas break and Santa brings you some lovely BDSM prezzies, or none as the case may be. I hope the Dommes are waited on hand and foot, get to satisfy their depraved and wicked tastes and have lots of lovely orgasms. I hope the subs, are exploited, and used and abused, suffer for the pleasure of their Domme and remain full of the desperation of unrequited  sexual desire – denied release until at least the new year. They will sleep the deep contented sleep of the dominated, abused submissive. Source: Ms Scarlet Happy Xmas Dommes and subs

Thank you to all who responded to my last post. Some great ideas. I list my favourite 4 below. Links are in the comments section of the previous post. Nothing. No presents at all. And given the number and expense of my pile of presents, how cruel! The dildo from which liquid can be squirted. So good for face, anal and oral humiliation training of a cum-dumpster. Perhaps 2 of them for spit roasting by my girlfriend and I. We could ‘spurt’ at the same time! The top of the range metal cock ring, full of  spikes. The KTB. The tally counter, (stuck above a mirror mounted dildo). LINK to my published journals. LINK to my published BDSM manual.     Source: Ms Scarlet [...]

Most years at this time of year, I have posted about the presents I have bought for bitch-boy. Implements for torture and discipline, items for humiliation, equipment for sensory deprivation bondage. BUT this year, I seem to have just about all I need. No items spring to mind that would increase his subjugation beyond its current extreme level. Perhaps a result of a Femdom relationship now over 15 years old. So I throw open to you dear followers a request for ideas. I hold out little hope for a suggestion that I will act upon; such is my contentment with my array of paraphernalia, so please don’t be offended if I don’t act upon your suggestion, BUT  who knows, you dear followers often surprise me with [...]

I finally have a review of my BDSM manual on the Amazon United States site. And it is 5 star and very kind indeed! I am so pleased and very grateful to this Amazon Customer. Amazon Customer This is the best book ive read about how to embrace domination, and it is very practical as well.  Wow. I have several books about domination, and Ive been practicing the lifestyle for several years, and this book is still amazingly helpful for me. It is very practical and real. I love the perspectives, the dinamics and the psychology. Im loving it.   Link to My published BDSM Manual   Source: Ms Scarlet Praise indeed

Labels are a problem. I wanted to post on the subject of a Domme wife or girlfriend of a male sub and the Domme wife or girlfriend cuckolds her male sub through a relationship with another woman, involving sex. And the male is in chastity, does not get a full orgasm often and never gets to have sex of any sort with his wife/girlfriend. I think the label of cuckolding properly applies, but either one or both of the women can be bisexual instead of lesbian. So, labels aside, hopefully you know what I am describing. You understand the scenario. It is my favourite thing in the world and I get disappointed by the limited amount of relevant material there is on the internet. At one end of [...]

I watched a TV programme on the development of sex robots yesterday. Trailer here. Robot dolls that among other things, can engage in interactive conversation, use facial recognition to differentiate between people they ‘know’ and display distinct emotions through expressions in their facial ‘muscle’ movements. In time, the dolls will be amazing I have no doubt. The developers were focussing on doll personalities that would be highly sexual, wanton and lustful in nature. BUT………. I immediately thought about how beneficial they could be as robot Dommes for submissives who cannot find a real life Domme. I thought about how I would love to provide the programs and phrases the robots could use in various scenarios. To start with tease and denial.                     I imagined the robots could be remotely [...]