Hi, Just as you like enjoying sex with men other than your husband, does he have sex with other women as well? Does the notion excite you? How would you feel if your role as cuckoldress was reversed. Do you fantasize about that? has your husband?

I am not cool with hubby playing without me. it’s important to me that I be his only real partner while I pointedly have the power to take others (even if I very rarely do because of Ben). we both enjoy how “unfair” this is; it feels like a critical part of our consensual power exchange Source: A Happy Cuckoldress

How heartless I can be

Regarding my request to hear about followers’ favourite entries from my published journals, Mistress Jane’s slave submitted the comment below. I thought the comment might be of interest given mention of his experience of me and also of interest might be the mention of a 20%  discount at the moment from Lulu.com for my journals in ePub or paperback format. Dear Mistress Scarlet, This slave has so many to chose from. The few that spring to mind at the moment are the entries describing the first time bb is revealed to Your sisters and Mother. The line crossed here almost made me doubt it happened at first, but this was way before i had the honour of serving You alongside my Mistress and that experience [...]

Slave applications to Mistress Sonia

There have been 50 applications so far – to give you a continuing sense of numbers. Mistress Sonia will email each of you so be patient. Source: Ms Scarlet

Femdom Life: Fingering, Negotiations & Ruined Orgasms

Friday night, we have sex. He reached for me, nestling the length of his body into the roundness of mine. Even when he’s no longer the skinny boy I started dating, and has filled out into muscle and robust health, he’s still made of stiff lines and delicate details, like an origami figure someone folded out of starched silk. Now there’s a solid weight to his arms and legs that I find pleasing. I liked it when he was so light that I was the heavy one, but I like this new sign of remission in his health problems. Thursday night I was unbridled honest with him, even more so than I ever am with you, dear reader (of course you get a [...]

Favourite journal entries

I received this feedback below and I would love to hear of other favourite journal entries my loyal readers may have. It helps me know which sort of events I should write about. Speaking of crying…I am currently reading volume 7 of Your journals…thanks to the holidays this has been a slow process! Anyways, this morning I read the chapter about the school detention…OMG…that pushed sooooo many buttons with me! I confess I was dribbling a mess in my panties…soooo delicious…Thank You Ma’am for sharing that! In respect, sissy jamieanne   Source: Ms Scarlet

And more humiliation ideas

Below is part of a comment received on this blog from Christine M. I was pleased to note that even my tenth published journal is providing ideas to make little submissives lives more ‘interesting’ and their Dommes’ lives more amusing. There is a symbiosis demonstrated by the comment. I have some novel ideas for punishment and humiliation and I publish my experiences of those. Readers read of my ideas and then come back to me with their novel ideas which I use on bitch-boy and write about, and so a self perpetuating loop of delightful ideas continues. Christine’s tantrum idea below is a case in point! I just bought your journal issue 10. Delightful. I got so many ideas for humiliation when he [...]

Submissive male needed for long term commitment

A Domme friend of mine has recently parted ways with her submissive and seeks a replacement. She is looking for a long term commitment. She is VERY dominant and experienced. If you are interested in seeking to become her slave and sub, leave a comment on this blog. I will not publish your comment. I will pass your email address and comment onto her. Source: Ms Scarlet

Break him?

I received the following question from Tomilina. I thought my answer may be worthy of a blog post. If I may ask, Mistress Scarlet, do you ever fear that one day bb might just “:break” and lose all sense of shame? Might he one day just go through the motions so to speak, become stoic having no spirit whatsoever? I think if he was enduring my humiliations and torments literally 24/7/365 he might break with the result you suggest. Might. But he runs his own business and we have vanilla friends and vanilla family contacts. So he spends some days, most weeks, interacting in circumstances in which he is well respected and considered very successful and intelligent and wise. He gets a lot [...]

Secret , Shameful GenderQueer Confessions

I am a cisgendered woman. This is to say that I am convinced that I am female, and the body I am in best conforms to the medical definition of female by sex. I also navigate a world that is particularly aware of the importance of trans* and non-binary gender, being the younger half of the kink scene. Trans, on a binary, is pretty automatic, if you are not a twit or a bigot. I was fortunate enough that at the age that other children were being taught please and thank you, I had the process of a gender transition explained to me (why does mummy’s friend seem both male and female? He is actually a she- they are living for a year [...]

Cruel Governess Lexi

bitch-boy is beside himself with dread and shame. The closest to rebellion he has been for a long while. (But he has not rebelled). I am arranging for Governess Lexi to come down to my house one afternoon this week and ‘babysit’ bitch-boy until I get home from work. Imagine all alone and at the mercy of a woman less than half his age who is, among other things, going to have him naked while she pisses on him, then a cold shower, then dressed up in his new faux little girl dress with make-up, false lashes and all the trimmings. There will be a harsh deterrent punishment to make his bottom very red and marked. She has said she will have him perform  a nursery rhyme in front [...]