It is a lovely pleasure when abusing my slave husband to label him with abusive terms and names. Just one of the many shaming, humiliating things for him to endure. And it feels so deliciously spiteful to do. Obviously, he is generally called bitch-boy. After a while I think the main name (bitch-boy) ceases to have a shaming impact. I list below other labels that have been used in the past or I use now. The extra hurt when I use one of these terms rather than, ‘bitch-boy’ is always plain to see. I wonder if any follower has any other suggestions. Bitch, Sissy, Pansy, Sissy-boy, Pansy boy, Pansy-piece, Nancy-boy, Nancy, Slut, Prissy, Prissy sissy, Sissykins, Prissykins, Good little girl, Naughty little girl, Born again virgin, Object, [...]

There is a good on-line shop for BDSM equipment called Extreme Restraints . I have just bought some birthday ‘presents’ for Play-toy from the site. BUT, if you are in the UK there is an issue. The site presents as a UK site and prices are in UK sterling, but when you place an order it seems the retailer is based in the USA. Two issues with this. Firstly, there is a customs charge to pay so my last set of purchase ended up around £15 more expensive than expected. Secondly, there is the risk of the people at customs opening up the package and if you worry about your good name and reputation in the vanilla world, this may concern you.   [...]

There is an issue of a little complexity about dealing with pain caused to your sub by accident, or by your clumsiness while dominating. Firstly, I believe that subs want to have the image of their Domme as living breathing perfection in every way. Therefore if you accidently hurt your sub or hurt them through your clumsiness, you are not perfect and that is a bad for your image. A good example is whip wraparound. To give an example of whip wraparound (WW). bitch-boy is tied face down over the dining table and I am whipping him with my dressage whip which is very long and very thin. It is ‘whippy’. My intention is to land the whip evenly across both buttocks causing [...]

Following my rant post last Saturday, bitch-boy has found a Tumblr site which meets so many of my requirements. No dungeons, no warehouses, no leather or PVC, etc. And it has a very large store of images. And a bizarre and wonderful niche site which seems to be published by a real couple where the slaves cock comes in for some serious treatment. Just what cocks were made for and located so conveniently for. I especially like the videos where she masturbates, sitting on a chair and the male’s cock is seriously squashed by the chair structure. Hot! Source: Ms Scarlet

Volume 10 of my journals is now available on Barnes and Noble which I think is for Nook Book readers. It is still not available in the Apple iTunes book store. I have no idea why. It remains available on Lulu.com as an ePub or as a paperback. And on Amazon Kindle. US. UK. DE. FR. ES. IT. NL. JP. BR. CA. MX. AU. IN.   COOMENTS ON VOLUME 1 – HOW TIME HAS FLOWN Volume 1 continues to be the subject of kind comments like the one below. I had no idea when I began to document my life by writing Volume 1 that I would be publishing Volume 10 in due course and have requests for Volume 11 (which will be published soon). [...]

The entries in Volume 5 of my journals appear to strike chords with a good number of my blog followers. Below is a typical comment regarding my request to hear about favourite journal entries. The one described in the initial post is definitely a favorite, and I also love the “Gimp hung from a beam” passage from Volume 5. Another one I’ve always enjoyed is the “Look me in the eye” passage, also from Volume 5. I suppose I have a thing for electro torture! I also love the cruelty of You and Sarah making him add more and more Deep Heat. Looking forward to the next Volume! Source: Ms Scarlet