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Things I Am NOT Saying About Professional Dominants

As a follow up to my last post on the subject of dominatrices VS non-professionals, I’ve also been trying to share more of other people’s writings on the subject and make this more of a conversation, including on twitter. And of course I’m getting pushback because people think I dislike or don’t believe in professional dominants. This happens every time you try to talk about the pro/non-pro distinction, so I’m going to try to make a definitive response to the subject right here. Professionals are not fake. Please stop writing to tell me about how they are also all “lifestyle” and real and put their heart and soul into the job. This is not about bashing pros, it’s about making a distinction, and [...]

Not All Femdoms Are Sex Workers

Once again, an innocent question from a redditor reminds me of one of the problems that comes with being a non-professional dominant. Or really any conversation about femdom. I get messages from people in my inbox (I guess I seem authoritative) of various sites and this is not an unusual occurrence. Sometimes it’s a guy trying to book a session. In this case, he was neither impolite nor unpleasant, but it’s my daily reminder that the thing that I do is not perceived as functioning the way I do it – to the larger world, femdoms are sex workers by default. Random Reddit Dude: Hi, I stumbled upon your reddit domme post and Im abt to go to my first domme in a [...]

Play-toy’s Punishment And Shame – audio

Or just a mind-fuck for a naughty little mongrel on heat who needs to learn complete obedience – even when she is at home! Source: Ms Scarlet

9 Years Denial

I know which house I was in when I decided bitch-boy would never penetrate me (and therefore any woman) ever again. So I know what year that was. And I know roughly the time of year. I so deeply regret not writing down the exact date. But I am able to say that around this month of this year we are at bitch-boy’s ninth anniversary of his born again virgin status. Poor, poor bb. Amazingly he has not given up on it! Only two weeks ago he begged and begged to be allowed to penetrate my pretty cunt, between my beautiful athletic legs, JUST ONCE A YEAR, and even then not cum. Just be inside me for a few minutes. I laughed and [...]

Dominant Smoking Women

I have noticed how many submissive men are turned on by photos of (on the face of it vanilla) smoking women and I have been thinking about why. I have concluded there are a lot of reasons. The main one I think is that a woman smoking in a pic often looks very relaxed. Being relaxed hints very strongly at being in control. I am always saddened by seeing pics or videos purporting to be of dominant women in action, who are angry or who have lost their temper. I am sure a submissive may be frightened by an angry Domme, but surely it is more frightening when the Domme is utterly relaxed while inflicting her abuses? A little off the subject, but linked to this [...]

Cruel cup runneth over

I am so blessed at the moment. As well as having my girlfriend Lexi regularly visiting and Mistress Jane visiting occasionally, I met another fab Mistress for a meal this week and now she is visiting this weekend. Poor bitch-boy is desolate! Even though it may be that Mistress Sonia is not into forced petticoating of males, I am going to introduce bitch-boy in his full, fuax, little girl, sissy outfit and holding his big dolly, Suzette Simperkins. One inch false eye lashes and all! He actually physically trembles when meeting a Mistress for the first time when so attired and I think the fact that Mistress Sonia may not be into it, will just make it even worse! (I have, of course, told him [...]

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Photo courtesy of Charlie in the Pool Welcome to Elust #76 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #75? Start with the rules, come back November 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Sex and the post-birth vagina Lonely Things Just the two of us ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Tiny, shiny, bity snaps of steel… I have fallen in and out of love with myself ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ [...]

Him seeing his CBT

I watched this delightful video on Tumblr and it gave me a thought. bitch-boy suffers a good deal of torture of his little penis. A great deal in fact. But 90% of that torture is when he is secured in his gynaecological stirrups on the BDSM bed and he therefore cannot see what is happening to his little clitty. He can only feel it. Watching this video where the slave is actually watching the cool, calm, relaxed amused torturess at work, made me think how much worse that could make the torture. I could never forego the pleasure of torturing his little clitty while he is so very helplessly bound on the BDSM bed, but, (especially when double-domming or triple-domming), I think I will [...]

Suffering Two by Two

Two, two by two things: ONE. My video baby monitor died a few weeks ago and it prompted me to buy two new ones. Two identical units. I had before been risking it a bit, when I had both Play-toy and bitch-boy in white noise, TSD bondage at the same time and only one baby monitor. (Although the rooms are close enough together that, should either of them have been making sounds of distress, I would have heard it on the single monitor.) Well I have the new units switched to different channels and the last time Play-toy visited, I found myself sitting on the sofa reading the weekend papers and on the side table next to me, two little screens beaming two little [...]

Labels for women

I am occasionally challenged as to whether I am a lesbian, whether I was always a lesbian, (so why did I hook up with bitch-boy??) or that I MUST be bi-sexual. I always respond by describing how I changed over the last 15 years, outside my conscious control. I also say how sexuality labels for women are almost pointless. There are spectrums within spectrums. Well it appears science supports my view. Source: Ms Scarlet